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SCHOOL DIARY #1: First Day of School Jitters (and how to deal)

Posted on: August 20th, 2015 by bubbyjoysandoys 6 Comments

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My grandson who is seven shared with me the other day that he is “scared” of second grade. Now mind you he’s a very bright student and a confident child…(Spoken like a true grandmother!). But still, he expressed what many of us feel each year as the summer winds down and the new year –with the first day of school and other firsts — creeps up on us.

Fear. Worry. Concern. How will things go?

All beginnings are hard, our sages tell us. As a teacher of high school, I have my own share of jitters in the weeks leading up to the first day of school. Will my students do well? Will they behave? Will I have a good lesson planned? And so on.

I shared how I’m also nervous, but not to be a student. I’m jittery about the first day of school (in a few weeks) when I will be an teacher after a 6 year hiatus from that job.

In the 1980’s and 1990’s, I taught music in various settings. Between 2000 and 2009, I taught high school English in a local high school. Then, in 2009, I “retired” from teaching, partly due to burnout and partly to focus more on my writing career, my grandchildren, and my music therapy career. Sounds like a lot, and it was.

And now, I was approached by the principal of a small school to take on several English and language arts classes. This teaching job of approximately eight lessons per week will be on top of my already full load of music therapy patients.

As I told my grandson, I’m nervous. Why? Several reasons, but mostly because beginnings are often difficult and it’s relatively normal to have butterflies in our stomachs when starting new things. New auditions. New rehearsals. New roles. New anything.

So what do we do when we are worried about starting something new?

We draw on our old experiences and remind ourselves what we did right. And do more of that. In my case, I took out all my materials from years ago, and sorted through it all.

Things are different these days. More material online. Communication between administration, I’ve noticed, is less on paper and more via email and text. Grades are posted online. And students have computers in the classroom.

Kids have things to worry about too. Will they make friends, will they understand the material, and will they get picked in sports? Among other things.

This is also the time before the Jewish New Year, when we pray for a happy new year and lots of good things to come. A  certain amount of concern and vigilance is in order. 
 
Maybe it’s a healthy sign for us to have some degree of anxiety at this time. That motivates us to pray, to prepare ourselves for the High Holy Days.

How do you get motivated to do the preparation necessary for good beginnings? Do you have any sense of fear or anxiety when starting new things? How do you cope?


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6 Responses

  1. mf la says:

    what a full plate!! You have much to give and HaShem is opening up so many avenues for you. wow. hatlozcha,
    shana tova mf la

  2. Lisa Winkler says:

    Good luck with your new job! You’ll be great. Yes, we all have a bit of first day jitters. My issue is the too long orientation beforehand– let’s just get started!

  3. I am sure you are a wonderful teacher with your passion, intelligence and insights. There was a reason you were asked to come back; you were meant to teach. Good luck on it. It sounds like a marvelous way back into it.

    Happy and Sweet New Year to you and yours!
    Cathy

    • Oh, Cathy, thanks for your wonderful encouragement. Now that I’ve had some time in the classroom with the new students, I’m actually enjoying, feeling comfortable. The students are really sweet and eager. Thank G-d.

      I wish you and your family and extended families a Shana Tova! A healthy and happy new year to all. Thanks again for your kind (as always) words.

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