I have been thinking about restraint a lot. It is not one of my strong points.
Restraint regarding what I say (or not).
What I eat.
How much I choose to keep myself busy, and with what pastimes.
What thoughts I let go through my head. Continue reading
My son and daughter-in-law went somewhere the other day and left our grandson, their two-year old son with us for a few hours. He screamed and cried so loudly when they left, “Mommy, Daddy,…” that I thought the neighbors down the block would hear. (some exaggeration here).
But seriously, he really cried like he meant it. He eventually calmed down and was a happy camper, but his method of communication that was so “real” and “honest” made me think about my own honesty in my communication.
Do we all express our feelings to our close ones like we really mean it? Or do we muffle our sound because we want to please the next person? Are we afraid to look bad so we don’t express what we really mean, or at least tell the other one “Let’s agree to disagree,” rather than misrepresenting ourselves and our reality? Continue reading