Regret. Guilt. Disappointment. Failure. These are all normal feelings for human beings.
Looking back instead of forward. Wishing we can do it again. Resenting the way things have turned out.
Not normal. Not a good thing. Probably a waste of time.
I remember taking math tests or other difficult exams back in the days of school and even college. I recall having what we called the “post mortem.” We would gather together outside of the classroom and compare which answers we put for specific questions. It was so ridiculous because the look on one’s friend face when she realized that “c” was the wrong answer to a multiple choice question was enough to make me melt. Who wants to be the one to cause someone else to think, “Aaargh! I should NOT have changed my answer!?” Continue reading